More Fun, Less Fear

Melissa Berger • June 11, 2025

Summer Fun, Safety First

Warm weather brings more than sunshine and pool days—it also calls for extra safety planning if you're parenting an autistic child.


Water Safety

Drowning is the leading cause of death for autistic kids. They’re often drawn to water because of how it feels, sounds, or smells—and that attraction can be powerful.


Tips to Keep Your Child Safe Near Water:


  • Adaptive swim lessons (like Swim Angelfish or your local YMCA)
  • Always supervise (no exceptions for pools, lakes, bathtubs, or even fountains)
  • Add barriers (fences, especially around pools, door locks, and alarms) and check them all to be sure they are working properly
  • Use gear (life vests over floaties, GPS trackers)
  • Visual cues (social stories or rule cards help explain water boundaries)

Consider assigning a “designated watcher” during gatherings and rotating the role. It only takes a moment for a child to slip away.


About Elopement

Wandering, also known as elopement, can occur in an instant. Curiosity, stress, or sensory overload can all trigger it.


Ways to Reduce the Risk of Elopement:


  • Locks, alarms, and fencing at home
  • GPS devices hidden in clothing or shoes
  • Always take a photo before outings (you’ll know exactly what they are wearing)
  • Share your safety plan with neighbors, teachers, and caregivers

If your child does wander, stay calm and call 911. Having that photo ready can make all the difference.


An Additional Resource


The National Autism Association’s Big Red Safety Box is full of tools and tips to help.


Summer should be fun. With a few thoughtful steps, it can also be safe.

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